We grew up thinking we had to put others' first and not be selfish by choosing what we wanted, for ourselves. Helping others, putting others needs before ours, being there when they wanted us / needed us. Putting our needs aside, for theirs. Now, I'm not saying it's wrong to help others. To be there ...
is toxicity contagious?
Have you ever wondered how someone could be so toxic? So manipulative and deceitful? And perhaps a bit delusional in thinking they are not? Unfortunately what's worse is that these toxic folks have a habit of infecting others --- perhaps not to the same degree but bits of those symptoms can appear in those they ...
When Is It Ok to Be Selfish?
Written by contributing blogger, Daniela Forte. No one ever likes being selfish. It’s such an uncomfortable feeling, (at least for me) but there are certain times in your life when being selfish is a must. I can’t say I’m selfish, sometimes I think that’s the problem with my dealings with people and situations. I worry and think ...
When is being Selfish ok?
We grew up being told that being selfish is a bad thing. We should be kind and selfless and give ourselves to others and causes. We should give ourselves and our time. We shouldn't just think of ourselves, and our own wants and needs. Life isn't just about...us. As we grow older, that becomes even more ...