We approach so many folks in our lives. Some for a moment, some for a lifetime. But which ones truly deserve us? Over the last year I came across an individual who seemed pleasant at first. She was fun, adventurous, smart, and like me, loved food. But first appearances, can be deceiving. We have a ...
Overcome the negative thoughts
It happens, we just can't help it - sometimes we wind up in this tornado of negative thoughts whether it's towards someone else, a situation, ourselves, or just overall. It's no bueno. So how do we break through that tornado? Push those negative thoughts aside? Or at least temper them so we aren't all consumed ...
Friends who show up
Friendship has a lot of definitions, and can go from people who speak a couple times a year but that bond is strong, to those who speak almost everyday and know everything about one another, to those who barely speak but hang out casually when they can. Whatever the type, friendships are important and impact ...
4 ways to be more present
Written by contributing blogger, Sonia Sahota. Hello 2019! How in the world did that happen? It feels like just the other day it was 2014. As we ring in the New Year, we are all looking for ways to better ourselves and create resolutions that we will actually stick to. This year, I decided I ...
A year of giving
Holidays come and go, but they aren't the only to remember and give back to those who need help from others. Giving is a year round present for those who need us. I used to give once a year (Christmas time) to the ASPCA as my one large sum donation. Animals (as most of you ...
How will you react?
Unfortunately, when I sit and observe (which I do often)...not because I'm quiet or have nothing to say, but it allows me to gain a perspective on the room, and who people are first. I realize sometimes (trying not to generalize here), people relate the conversation at hand told by the other person too much ...
Good Vibes all Around…
It may be a saying we find on t-shirts, mugs, and other merch all around us nowadays, along with other similar mantras, but can you really say anything negative about having "good vibes" in your life and surrounding yourself with it? Who doesn't want that? What's considered a good vibe? Usually an energy that comes off ...
How much of yourself are you willing to lose?
In our relationships, our jobs, our daily lives, there are many things commanding our attention, asking for our time, to choose things besides our own preferences, and leaving us little time for ourselves and what we may want too. It sucks our energy, and part of ourselves each day. But how much is enough? And ...
30s vs 20s…the real deal
I will admit, turning 30 (5 years ago) was a milestone I was nervous about. That number seemed scary. I mean it just seemed "old", an obstacle, I wasn't ready for. And then my bday came and passed, and I felt not much different. However, as I progressed in my early 30s, and moved to ...
Blossom or Whither
She ran down the path towards the river, feeling free. She had escaped the toxicity of a relationship that was holding her back. A friendship that made her feel like she had to try too hard just to even breathe in the same room. A friend who made her struggle to get ready to get ...