Some people don’t like to make a fuss about their birthday and sometimes let it slide under the radar. While others may go as far as a birthday month and have festivities throughout. What the level of celebration, the day itself should be considered special. It was the day people were given the chance to get to know you – a person who matters.

When we spend so much of our time giving to others, putting others first, focusing on our jobs, our families, and all the other priorities we have…sometimes our own self love gets lost in the shuffle.

I am a large believer that your birthday is whatever you want it to be. Whether you decide to celebrate with one special person or a hundred, let it all sink in and allow the compliments and hugs and toasts. It’s not selfish, it’s allowing yourself to be appreciated and loved by those who you love just as much.

Normally I do a birthday weekend or week because my birthday lands around July 4th, but as this summer has others busy and people away during this time, I’m keeping it simple. I’ve also had to plan my own birthday many times in the past, and I’ve realized over time I actually am tired of planning. So I’m keeping it even simpler. If people want to see me or celebrate me, they can ask or plan something for us to celebrate together. Not that I’m being lazy, but since it is my time, I’m taking the more relaxed route this year. Of course I’ll see my family and have some well-deserved gluten free cake and yummy food.

I also will continue my traditions to take time for some self love including getting in some walks by the water, getting a manicure/pedicure, getting food at my favorite restaurant, and browsing my favorite shops or cultural places. And as simple as reading a book by the pool or balcony because sometimes it really is about the simple pleasures.

So don’t ever think your birthday is just another day. It’s your day. Make it what you want, bc you DO matter.

#radiatedaily

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